If your browser does not accept cookies, you cannot view this site.There are many reasons why a cookie could not be set correctly.That is, young people who are labeled as or considered to be violent and aggressive at any point in time are then assumed to be dangerous for the rest of their lives.This is a contentious issue because there is a desire to protect both parties involved (or that have the potential to become involved) in teen dating violence.NCFY: The two agree that pop music provides both negative and positive examples for young people’s relationships and that no genre sends purely good or bad messages.JAQUIL: “Moves Like Jagger” by Maroon Five caught the kids by surprise.We want them to think about what a healthy relationship looks like and what an unhealthy relationship looks like.
Jalisa says the discussions teach young people to think more critically.
They saw lyrics like "trying to control you" and different other sexual or disrespectful lyrics inside a song. It like talks about how the relationship’s good and like his love for her and support and how it’s like he wants to be good for her. And all the positive things that a relationship like trust and loyalty and communication. JAQUIL: A lot of the time, rap or urban city music is being blamed for these negative messages. NCFY: Jaquil says there’s no more fitting way to get young people interested in issues of personal safety and relationship health.
JAQUIL: Seeing that we’re all affected by media, and especially how much teenagers are affected by pop culture, going through music and music videos, the kids can relate to what we’re talking about and they understand.
NCFY: Welcome to Youth Speak Out, a podcast series from the Family and Youth Services Bureau.
Jaquil and Jalisa are two youth leaders for Start Strong Boston who coach 11- to 14-year-olds on healthy relationships and teen dating violence.