No one wants to be taken advantage of, or be blindsided. It’s brutally painful to love someone who doesn’t feel the same.
You landed on this article because you want to know if the guy you’re seeing truly loves you. Knowing if he loves you is slightly more complex, but really not as difficult as it seems when you know what to look for.
You’re left to wonder if he’s just going through the same turmoil of the breakup you are, or if his actions are legitimate.
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) I understand where your head is at, but here’s the thing.
Getting him to miss you is only a small part of the equation and that isn’t necessarily going to guarantee he comes back.
If you only tried to make him miss you, you might get him back, but it wouldn’t last.
(Make sure to also read this article for the exact signs your ex misses you.) Fortunately, it is possible to get your ex back and make it work the second time around.
(My story did, fortunately, have a happy ending and I am actually married to an ex!
For the first week, you don’t even recognize the person you are.
When you share your life with someone, some of your identity becomes intertwined with them. What can make that process even harder is when your ex decides to muddy the waters by showing signs he wants you back.
They mistake infatuation and obsession with true love because they can feel the same sometimes. Fears and insecurities can get in the way and cloud your judgment.
The problem is that when you confuse infatuation with real love, it can mean getting overly invested when you shouldn’t, or spending too much time with the wrong person. If you’re busy worrying that he doesn’t love you back, or that he’ll never commit, or that he’s going to leave you, you’ll be in your head so much it will be impossible to be in your heart.